Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Happy New Year!

We headed out to the backpackers district last night as I wanted to drop off my laundry.  I bought this sweet laundry travel thing (The Scrubba) but I really want a clean sweatshirt for the trip back.  There is a nice little laundry place I’ve always used – so we dropped off my clothes and walked around a bit.

I do not miss the backpacker’s district.  It’s loud, neon lights everywhere, people everywhere, too much!  We did, however, stop at Zoom Café – and were surprised when we saw a Western guy taking some orders.  I stopped him to ask “his story” and he is from Minnesota and has been here 3 months.  He answered an ad on Craigslist and now is the manager of this place (which is part restaurant part scooter tours).  He doesn’t know much, if any, Vietnamese, but says he plans to start taking classes!

I cheated and went to bed before my 930 minimum last night – which is probably the reason I was up at 530! 

Mom and I decided we would stop at The Big C (grocery store) on our way to the orphanage, so after a quick stop for breakfast, we were on our way!

The bus setup is a bit knew this year.  I think I said how last year I waited and waited for the #3 bus out front, only to realize it stopped out back.  This year it got a bit more organized out back and there is more of a bus terminal.  We still weren’t sure where exactly it stopped – but this nice moped man (if you get off the bus and need a ride) told us where to stand which was nice. 

It was a nice quiet (relatively) ride to The Big C, but we weren’t as successful as we had hoped.  We did, however, get some baby formula, but couldn’t find medicine (a lot of the kids have colds) so realized they really ONLY sell that at the pharmacy, so we will have to try elsewhere. 

We hopped back ok the bus and were ready to rock and roll.

Thoung (big hug to both of us – luckily I think he was just having a bad day our first day) was all ready with his new shoes and wanting to go outside for a walk.  We got a couple of the kids ready in strollers and off we went.

This is when we were greeted by the paparazzi.  There were probably 10 students (all with nice cameras) who wanted to photograph our every move.  We’re pretty used to be stared at (when we get on the bus, when we walk to the orphanage, etc) but this was crazy!  They spoke a little English (the head guy asked for my email so he could send some pictures) and I did learn they were Vietnamese, but that is really all I learned.

We did a nice lap around the Pagoda and then decided (the strollers aren’t in the best shape and the ground is really uneven so it can be difficult) to stop and listen to some music.  I really like taking the kids out that definitely wouldn’t be able to.  So for example, Thoung can pretty much walk on his own, but one of the kids in the stroller cant move at all (it was actually difficult to get him IN the stroller because his legs would fold up) so I just think its so great to get them fresh air and some sunlight.
Thoung’s knees are all banged up (he’s very wobbly on his feet and while I haven’t seen him fall a lot, it’s obviously that he does) so I brought supplies to be Dr. Julie today (antiseptic wipes, Neosporin, Band-Aids) but his knees were all bandaged up (yay thanks to whoever did that) so I didn’t have to spring into Dr. Quinn mode.  

We spent some time listening to music (the paparazzi stormed us) and then decided we should head back so everyone could listen to music. 

I sat on a little swing with Cho Con (who hasn’t been in to singing as much this year) but we sort of just swang and then we heard “If you’re happy and you know it” come on.  He had some toys in his hands that he liked to bang along to the music but made sure he was ready when we needed to clap our hands.  Then, he had to reposition himself so that he was ready to stomp his feet. 

After some more playing and listening to tunes – it was time to eat!  Both Mom and I fed the same kids at yesterday, which was kind of nice because they are relatively easy!  I didn’t even need to bribe mine today with my phone – she was great!  Thoung got out his little table (which I have sometimes seen him eat at..) so he could sit closer to us which was cute.  This was the first time (in 5 years) I have seen them eat decent food.  It looked like Pho (a popular dish) so I was happy to see they were getting something more than rice and fish. 
I was successful staying on my feet today (yay) so we got the kids ready for their nap and was told to hit the road!

The bus ride back was VERY hot (although two younger girls got up so we could sit – very sweet) but I was SO happy when our stop was nearing. 

We decided to have lunch at the roofbar of the Rex – a place we have frequented before and really liked.  However, I was starving, and very hot, and not too happy that 30 minutes later we still didn’t have our food (ham & cheese and pizza – and nobody was there).  When it finally did come I didn’t like the pizza at all – so we made a pit stop to get some icecream.  The icecream place by the hotel (no, its not the ONLY reason we stay at this hotel), Tutti Frutti, has the COLDEST icecream we have ever had!  It never disappoints and is always SO good when you’re trying to cool down!

I’ve been tired every day, but for some reason this afternoon I was SO tired and was down for a nap before Mom even got out of the shower!

We then headed out to see what was going on for NYE!  There are a couple of parks (which is really nice to have in the middle of the city) where all the entertainment happens.  There were a TON of people out enjoying the difference activities.  I noticed this year there were a lot more kid activities that was cool.  It’s essentially a huge “First Night” with a couple of bigger venues and then a lot of little stalls.
We REALLY enjoyed watching the traffic.  They shut down part of the major road – and it caused chaos!  There were literally cars going perpendicular in the traffic circle.  They did have some cops out (we are still trying to learn the difference between those in the green uniform and those in the tan uniform) kind of ushering motorbikes along but it was essentially every motorbike for themselves out there.

I managed to stay up until 1030 (a new record for me!) and apparently slept thru the fireworks at midnight (ooops).

After breakfast this morning we had a pretty uneventful ride to the orphanage – besides the fact we were on the party bus!  Holy happy New Year, this bus driver was BLASTING the music.  If we weren’t awake beforehand we were definitely ready to rock and roll. 

Even though Vietnam doesn’t really celebrate the Western New Year (they have their own holiday celebration called “Tet”) New Years day is a holiday so the orphanage was on a “weekend” schedule, meaning the big room was closed.

We found Thoung sitting outside (this is a new thing for him this year, but I think its good to get out of his room).  We somehow ended up on Mom’s iPad (she brought it because it takes great pictures – which is another story.  I really would love if some time someone came with us JUST to take pictures! It is so hard because we’ll be playing with the kids <the reason we are there> and you don’t want to stop so you can snap a photo, but you also want to have some pictures as well!)  Anyway I digress, he really liked the iPad and looking at photos from our Christmas (Scott, Dad and AK made a cameo appearance). 
They played with the iPad a bit so I went inside and played with Hai and Car Rot listening to some music.  Hai LOVES listening to music – although today he threw me for a loop.  He had on a 101 Dalmatians outfit and after listening for a while pointed to it – and then pointed to the phone.  Car Rot (who is one of the few kids who can speak Vietnamese) was trying to help and went “Ruff ruff!” which made me laugh but I had no idea what they were looking for.  I quickly looked over my songs (I made a playlist with kids songs) but didn’t see anything related to dogs.  Then, I thought that maybe he saw a dog (or something similar) in the little picture that comes up when the song plays, but I still couldn’t help.  Luckily, they don’t hold grudges, so I was in the clear – but I still wonder what he was looking for!
They got called for naptime so waved goodbye and I was on my way.  Thoung and mom were outside playing games on the iPad!  First of all, they love anything technology related – but they really loved the iPad games!  She has a Christmas app with different Christmas related games and he loved it!  The more I thought about it – it really is so good for his concentration and fine motor skills.  So for one of the games you had to drag the presents into Santa’s bag.  You really only have to show him once and he gets it – so then its great to see him really concentrate and focus to complete the task. 

There was a boy with down syndrome (I don’t think we have ever learned his name) that also came over to play and loved the games as well!
We then went for a little walk to a different area of the pagoda but that turned into more game playing and the boy with Down syndrome saying “Ho Ho Ho!!!” but then we figured it was time for us to head out.  Again, with the weird schedule it isn’t as easy to tell when you’re in the way and when the workers like that you’re playing with the kids.  Thoung and the down syndrome boy are old enough that they really do a lot of their own (so I don’t think they really going down for a nap).

However, Thoung was NOT happy we were leaving.  He hasn’t been as grumpy the past few days (and will give us hugs and wave when we have to leave) but today he wanted none of it. 

I am sure he gets really bored on the days there is literally nothing going on so probably wasn’t happy that we were leaving him to just sit around – but luckily tomorrow he will have forgotten all about it and be back to smiles.

We decided we wanted to stop at a Westernish mall on the way back to get something to eat and look for a pharmacy.  The workers told Long that another item they could use is cough syrup for the kids (a lot of them have colds right now) but you can really only get that type of medicine at a pharmacy. 

However, going to the mall was NOT a great idea because the food area was PACKED as a lot of people have the day off.  We also couldn’t seem to find any places we recognized by name (a lot of international restaurants) and it was so hot and so loud (exactly NOT what we were looking for). 

We essentially got out of there as soon as we could – and after a carb filled lunch (surprise surprise) we did manage to find a pharmacy.  Since mom rocks – she had looked up some words of what we were looking for.  The women seemed to understand and went for a shelf near us – where we some bottles with kids on them and, ENGLISH!  Yay!  We were able to pull those out and see it had BOTH English and Vietnamese (does it get any better) and that the medicine was for colds, coughing, etc.  So we bought those – which I think (hope) is exactly what they need!

We came back for a late nap (down for the count again).  I have noticed (more this time than others) that I am SO tired all the time.  No idea why – although this is the shortest time we have ever been over here – but man I feel like I could literally sleep every second we’re not with the kids.  I think it will be good that in years to come we can pick a different time to travel (verses right after Christmas).  I just think with all the hype of the holidays – it’s a lot to have Christmas, nap and then gear into packing for Vietnam, all in one day.  I also found that I was really busy before Christmas catching up with old friends, etc. (which is not a bad problem to have!) but again I think having a separate time to fully “prepare” for Vietnam (even mentally preparing..I think it’s really important) will help!

We had a big night out on the town planned for tonight.  I was taking mom to “Chill Bar” which is a relatively new bar – but it’s on the 26th floor and completely open and has a great view of Ben Than Market, the traffic circle, the backpackers district, etc.  It is, however, very posh (and everything that comes along with that) so definitely not our type of place, but definitely worth it for the view.  They have a dress code
However, I have to call Jemma out and say that last year I don’t think (really either of us) wore anything crazy, but, we were able to get in!  This year, however, was a different story.

I made reservations online, but apparently that didn’t work because they didn’t have us on “the list”.  They also were NOT impressed with moms flip flops (fair enough) so they do have shoes you can “rent” for the night, although these were WAY too small for her.  Regardless, we were able to get in (wahoo) and get a spot at the bar that overlooked everything we wanted to see.  It’s overpriced and pushy and all the things we really DIDN’T want, however, the view was totally worth it.  After soaking in the view we were ready to hit the road (mom got her flip flops back) and we were on our way.
We walked thru the park on the way back as entertainment is still happening tonight.  I think tomorrow they will start to clear everything out of the park – but tonight we saw a cool percussion group perform.

Tomorrow night (I am really excited for this) we are going to the Opera House for a show (“they” say its like a Cirque du Soleil).  I have always wanted to go to the Opera House and look for what’s playing every time but have never seen anything worth while, so while we don’t have huge expectations I think it’ll be fun!

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  2. Julie’s blog: I do not miss the backpacker’s district. It’s loud, neon lights everywhere, people everywhere, too much!

    Chris: WHAT???? The first year I came over here we stayed in the backpacker district …. And it is exactly how Julie described it. Julie also did not (does not) want to spend too much $$$ on hotel accommodations. She would rather the $$$ be spent on the kids. (I totally get that.) Can you feel a however coming? Here it is ….. HOWEVER, the city is so hectic; there are so many people; getting to and from the orphanage is a bit of a trek; crossing the street is life-threatening ---- when I get back from the orphanage I need a bit of tranquility (which is hard to find in the city and definitely not to be found in the backpacker’s area). Oh and by the way, I like to have a window in my hotel room (the first year we had 6 tiny cinder blocks that were about 5 inches down from the ceiling that did let in some muted natural light, but it felt a bit prison like.) I convinced her on my year 2 … to move out of the district (I think she was doing it to appease me)…. I see now she has seen the wisdom of her mother’s wishes!! ☺

    Julie’s blog: We still weren’t sure where exactly it stopped – but this nice moped man (if you get off the bus and need a ride) told us where to stand which was nice.

    Chris: For the most part people here are really kind, supportive and helpful to tourists. This nice moped man had seen me looking at the bus map; asked what I needed and then told me where to stand …. Then when the bus came it stopped a little earlier and he got our attention to make sure we got on the bus.

    Also, when we leave the hotel at night they tell us to watch our purses. And we have the sweetest waitress in the morning. Young girls and young men will give us their seats if there isn’t room on the bus when we get on. For the most part people are quite gracious.

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    Julie’s blog: Thoung (big hug to both of us – luckily I think he was just having a bad day our first day) was all ready with his new shoes and wanting to go outside for a walk. We got a couple of the kids ready in strollers and off we went.

    Chris: As soon as Thoung saw us come in, he headed straight for his new shoes and was ready to head out. However, we wanted to see the other kids and get some others to go out with us so it took us a few minutes to get strollers ready; kids in the strollers etc. During this time Thoung sat on the floor and had the grumpiest face on. He doesn’t like to share Julie at all and just wanted to get outside.

    It is hard to know how much the kids who are not mobile get outside. The strollers are not in great shape and it is difficult to get some of the kids into them since their limbs are not flexible AND once you get outside there really isn’t much of anything to do. However, we just think it is nice to get them some fresh air and to see something different. One of the boys we took out was blinking and covering his eyes initially because the sun was bright.

    Julie’s blog: Thoung’s knees are all banged up (he’s very wobbly on his feet and while I haven’t seen him fall a lot, it’s obviously that he does)

    Chris: I took Thoung out on his own for a loop around the Pagoda and I can only imagine why his knees are so banged up. At first I was just holding his hand as we walked along, but then he started to speed up and try going faster and faster. As Julie said he is very wobbly (not sure what causes this), but I’d say a windy day could knock him over. So, you add to that very uneven cobblestones and shoes that never exactly fit and you have a very high probability of hitting the ground. As I mentioned he kept wanting to go faster and faster and as we picked up speed he just started laughing harder and harder. Holding his hand was certainly not going to keep him upright so we are half walking; half jogging while I’m trying to wrap an arm around him to keep us both in an upright position (remember Julie already did this years Wilson flop to the ground; I didn’t want to add another). Anyway, we managed to maneuver without injury to either of us!

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  5. Julie’s blog: We REALLY enjoyed watching the traffic.

    Chris: Traffic here is always chaotic, but last night was racheted up a notch or two. It just cracks me up to see the ‘traffic directors’ standing in the road – occasionally blowing their whistles and waving batons. Perhaps what they are doing makes some sort of sense to the busses, cars, motorbikes, and pedestrians …. But to us it simply looks like every so many minutes they need to wave something at someone as part of their job.
    As we meandered around we had to cross many intersections and I have to say I wished my feet were shorter OR that I had been wearing steel toed boots. I have no idea how our toes managed to escape intact. There were moments where your nose is practically touching a bus (which is passing in front of you …. Busses ALWAYS get priority) and there are 3 or 4 (or maybe 1000) motorbikes behind and/or beside you vying for the precious inches beyond where your body mass ends. But we survived and had a fun night.

    Julie’s blog: Anyway I digress, he really liked the iPad and looking at photos from our Christmas (Scott, Dad and AK made a cameo appearance).

    Chris: Thuong was very funny looking through the pictures. At first he was just looking at the ones of the kids in the orphanage. Then he started looking at others. He would spend time really reviewing them to see if he could see Julie or I. If he saw us he would point at the picture and then point at us. At one point there was a picture of my sister and I thought that would mess him up ..... but no, he looked at the picture; looked at me and shook his head 'no'.

    There were a couple of short videos of Rus and Scott at Christmas and he watched those a view times and got quite a kick out of them. He is just so interested in details and figuring things out. He would peruse each shot to see if he knew anyone in them.

    Julie’s blog: They also were NOT impressed with moms flip flops (fair enough) so they do have shoes you can “rent” for the night, although these were WAY too small for her.

    Chris: Let’s just say I was mortified by the shoe caper at the rooftop bar. I felt like true ‘riff-raff’ that they really weren’t sure they should let in. Hey, they have a dress (shoe) code and you can choose not to go if you don’t want to abide by it … but I think it was a little silly. I looked fine (they are dressy-ish flip flops). I think they would have let me in if I were wearing sneakers or steel-toed boots (which obviously would have looked ridiculous with a dress). As it was I looked (in my opinion) even stupider (yes, that’s the word I want to use) hobbling along in shoes that were about 2 sizes too small (AND didn’t match my dress). There were guys in the bar wearing jeans and sneakers. Okay, I’ll shut up …. Julie said it wasn’t that big a deal. HOWEVER, she wasn’t the one who had to be escorted to a “special, cordoned off by ropes – shoe exchange chair” where you remove ‘their’ shoes, put yours back on and have them inspect ‘their’ shoes to determine if you will get your ‘deposit’ back or not. Oh well,,, the view was SPECTACULAR!!!! Thanks Julie for taking me out on the town!!!

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